How They Feel

How Do They Feel About Me? Tarot Reading

Think of the person on your mind and draw one card. You'll see how they feel about you right now, along with the card's keyword, right away. It works for a crush, a partner, or someone you've broken up with. Free, no sign-up, as often as you like.

Who are they to you?

Bring them to mind, then choose a card.

Tap to draw a card

How to do this reading

  1. 1

    Pick who they are to you

    Choose the closest fit: a crush, a partner, an ex, or someone you like.

  2. 2

    Picture them and draw one card

    Keep their face or voice in mind and pick the card that catches your eye.

  3. 3

    Read how they feel

    The card and its orientation show the feelings they have for you right now, with a keyword.

What this reading can show you

How your crush sees you, what your partner really feels, what an ex who's gone quiet is thinking now: a one-card draw can show the feelings that are hard to confirm in words.

The same card shows up a little differently depending on the relationship. With a crush, read it for what might help close the distance; with a partner, for the temperature between you now; with an ex, for how their feelings have settled since the breakup.

If you want a clear answer on getting back together, Reconciliation Tarot is the better fit; for a straight yes or no, use Yes or No Tarot.

How they feel: all 78 cards

Every result on this page is built on the keywords in this list. The feeling can shift between upright and reversed, so check which way your card came up. Card names link to articles on what that card says about someone's feelings.

Major Arcana

22 cards
  • The Fool

    UprightLighthearted and smitten

    ReversedAfraid of losing their freedom

  • The Magician

    UprightReady to make the first move

    ReversedSaying more than they mean

  • The High Priestess

    UprightHolding you close in secret

    ReversedKeeping their heart shut

  • The Empress

    UprightWanting to take care of you

    ReversedWarmth with nowhere to go

  • The Emperor

    UprightDetermined to protect you

    ReversedUnable to let go of control

  • The Hierophant

    UprightSerious about doing this right

    ReversedChafing against the rules

  • The Lovers

    UprightStrongly drawn to you

    ReversedTorn between heart and head

  • The Chariot

    UprightComing straight for you

    ReversedSpinning their wheels

  • Strength

    UprightGentle, patient devotion

    ReversedScared of how much they feel

  • The Hermit

    UprightQuietly keeping you in mind

    ReversedHeart under lock and key

  • Wheel of Fortune

    UprightSensing that something has started

    ReversedThrown by bad timing

  • Justice

    UprightWanting an equal footing

    ReversedBothered by an imbalance

  • The Hanged Man

    UprightSuspended, waiting it out

    ReversedPatience wearing thin

  • Death

    UprightReady for things to change

    ReversedFighting the change

  • Temperance

    UprightHoping to find a shared rhythm

    ReversedTired of being out of sync

  • The Devil

    UprightHooked and can't pull away

    ReversedWaking up from an obsession

  • The Tower

    UprightShaken to the core

    ReversedBottling up the truth

  • The Star

    UprightHopeful about you

    ReversedToo wary to trust

  • The Moon

    UprightUnsure what they feel

    ReversedClarity starting to break through

  • The Sun

    UprightSimply happy with you

    ReversedA cloud over the brightness

  • Judgement

    UprightWanting to revisit what's between you

    ReversedHesitating to take the leap

  • The World

    UprightFeeling complete with you

    ReversedStalled just short of the finish

Cups

14 cards
  • Ace of Cups

    UprightOverflowing with feeling

    ReversedFeelings dammed up

  • Two of Cups

    UprightFeeling the same way you do

    ReversedSensing you've drifted apart

  • Three of Cups

    UprightHaving fun with you

    ReversedDistracted by others

  • Four of Cups

    UprightWithdrawn and low

    ReversedTurning back toward you

  • Five of Cups

    UprightLost in regret

    ReversedStarting to recover

  • Six of Cups

    UprightWarm, nostalgic comfort

    ReversedLiving in the past

  • Seven of Cups

    UprightDreamy and undecided

    ReversedComing back down to earth

  • Eight of Cups

    UprightUnfulfilled and drifting away

    ReversedCan't quite walk away

  • Nine of Cups

    UprightDeeply content by your side

    ReversedSomething still missing

  • Ten of Cups

    UprightImagining a future together

    ReversedCaught between dream and reality

  • Page of Cups

    UprightShy, budding affection

    ReversedHolding their affection back

  • Knight of Cups

    UprightSwept up in romance

    ReversedQuick to warm, quick to cool

  • Queen of Cups

    UprightWanting to be there for you

    ReversedOverwhelmed by emotion

  • King of Cups

    UprightCalm, steady affection

    ReversedSuppressing what they feel

Wands

14 cards
  • Ace of Wands

    UprightSuddenly on fire for you

    ReversedSitting on the spark

  • Two of Wands

    UprightThinking about where this goes

    ReversedUnsure of the next move

  • Three of Wands

    UprightWaiting to see what comes next

    ReversedRestless from waiting

  • Four of Wands

    UprightCelebrating what you have

    ReversedHesitant to go public

  • Five of Wands

    UprightAlways butting heads

    ReversedSteering clear of conflict

  • Six of Wands

    UprightProud to be with you

    ReversedLosing confidence

  • Seven of Wands

    UprightDefending what you share

    ReversedWorn down and outnumbered

  • Eight of Wands

    UprightEager to act now

    ReversedMomentum has stalled

  • Nine of Wands

    UprightUnable to lower their guard

    ReversedExhausted from staying guarded

  • Ten of Wands

    UprightStretched too thin

    ReversedLonging to put the load down

  • Page of Wands

    UprightExcited and curious

    ReversedExcited but aimless

  • Knight of Wands

    UprightChasing you with passion

    ReversedHot one day, cold the next

  • Queen of Wands

    UprightOpenly showing they like you

    ReversedShaken by jealousy

  • King of Wands

    UprightClear about wanting you

    ReversedBurning on their own terms

Swords

14 cards
  • Ace of Swords

    UprightWanting to clear the air

    ReversedWords coming out sharp

  • Two of Swords

    UprightRefusing to choose

    ReversedThe stalemate starting to break

  • Three of Swords

    UprightGenuinely heartbroken

    ReversedSlowly healing

  • Four of Swords

    UprightGiving their heart a rest

    ReversedComing out of the quiet

  • Five of Swords

    UprightToo proud to back down

    ReversedWanting to make peace

  • Six of Swords

    UprightHeading for calmer waters

    ReversedDragging the past along

  • Seven of Swords

    UprightHiding what they really think

    ReversedWanting to come clean

  • Eight of Swords

    UprightFeeling trapped

    ReversedBreaking free of their own ropes

  • Nine of Swords

    UprightLosing sleep over this

    ReversedAnxiety finally easing

  • Ten of Swords

    UprightCompletely drained

    ReversedGetting back up

  • Page of Swords

    UprightCurious to know you

    ReversedOverthinking every signal

  • Knight of Swords

    UprightCutting straight to it

    ReversedRuled by impulse

  • Queen of Swords

    UprightCarefully sizing you up

    ReversedWalled off and sharp-tongued

  • King of Swords

    UprightCaring with a clear head

    ReversedReasoning away their feelings

Pentacles

14 cards

Frequently asked questions

Can tarot tell me how someone feels?

Yes. Tarot shows the current feelings of the person you have in mind through the card's imagery and orientation. It doesn't promise what they'll do or how things will turn out, but even one card reads clearly which way their heart is facing right now.

Does it work for a crush or an ex?

It does. Pick the relationship before you draw. The card shows how they feel, and the in-depth reading then asks the question that fits that relationship.

If I get a heavy card, is it over?

Not necessarily. Heavy cards often show doubts or exhaustion they're carrying right now, not that their feelings for you are gone. A bright card reversed can also mean the feelings are there but they can't show them yet.

Can I keep redrawing?

You can draw as often as you like. But redrawing until you get the answer you want blurs what the first card was showing. Draw again when something moves between you, like a message or a conversation.

Will they know I did a reading about them?

No. You don't enter a name or anything else, and nothing about the reading is sent to the person you have in mind.

Is it free? Do I need to sign up?

This reading is free with no sign-up, as many times as you like. For a three-card in-depth reading on the two of you, you get one free reading a day when you log in.

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